Sulat ng magulang sa anak..

September 5th, 2008 by mybabyronnie

Sa aking pagtanda、unawain mo sana ako at pagpasensiyahan.
Kapag dala ng kalabuan ng mata ay nakabasag ako ng pinggan o nakatapon ng sabaw sa hapag kainan、huwag mo sana akong kagagalitan.
Maramdamin ang isang matanda. Nagse-self-pity ako sa tuwing sinisigawan mo ako.
Kapag mahina na ang tenga ko at hindi ko maintindihan ang sinasabi mo、huwag mo naman sana akong sabihan ng ‘binge!’ paki-ulit nalang ang sinabi mo o pakisulat nalang. Pasensya ka na、anak. Matanda na talaga ako.
Kapag mahina na ang tuhod ko、pagtiyagaan mo sana akong tulungang tumayo、katulad ng pag-aalalay ko sa iyo noong nag-aaral ka pa lamang lumakad.
Pagpasensyahan mo sana ako kung ako man ay nagiging makulit at paulit-ulit na parang sirang plaka.
Basta pakinggan mo nalang ako. Huwag mo sana akong pagtatawanan o pagsasawaang pakinggan.
Natatandaan mo anak noong bata ka pa? kapag gusto mo ng lobo、paulit-ulit mo ‘yong sasabihin、maghapon kang mangungulit hangga’t hindi mo nakukuha ang gusto mo. Pinagtyagaan ko ang kakulitan mo.
Pagpasensyahan mo na rin sana ang aking amoy. Amoy matanda、amoy lupa. Huwag mo sana akong piliting maligo. Mahina na ang katawan ko. Madaling magkasakit kapag nalamigan、huwag mo sana akong pandirihan.
Natatandaan mo noong bata ka pa? Pinagtyagaan kitang habulin sa ilalim ng kama kapag ayaw mong maligo.
Pagpasensyahan mo sana kung madalas、ako’y masungit、Dala na marahil ito ng katandaan. Pagtanda mo、maiintindihan mo rin.
Kapag may konti kang panahon、magkwentuhan naman tayo,kahit sandali lang. Inip na ako sa bahay、maghapong nag-iisa. Walang kausap.
Alam kong busy ka sa trabaho、subalit nais kong malaman mo na sabik na sabik na akong makakwentuhan ka、kahit alam kong hindi ka interesado sa mga kwento ko.
Natatandaan mo anak、noong bata ka pa? Pinagtyagaan kong pakinggan at intindihin ang pautal-utal mong kwento tungkol sa iyong teddy bear.
At kapag dumating ang sandali na ako’y magkakasakit at maratay sa banig ng karamdaman、huwag mo sana akong pagsawaang alagaan. Pagpasensyahan mo na sana kung ako man ay maihi o madumi
sa higaan,Pagtyagaan mo sana akong alagaan sa mga huling sandali ng
aking buhay.Tutal hindi na naman ako magtatagal.
Kapag dumating ang sandali ng aking pagpanaw、hawakan mo sana ang aking kamay At bigyan mo ako ng lakas ng loob na harapin ang kamatayan.
At huwag kang mag-alala、kapag kaharap ko na ang Diyos na lumikha、ibubulong ko sa kanya na pagpalain ka sana …
Dahil naging mapagmahal ka sa iyong ama’t ina…
 
Written by Rev. Fr. Ariel F. Robles
CWL Spiritual Director
St. Augustine Parish
Baliuag、Bulacan

One Flaw in Women..

January 12th, 2008 by mybabyronnie

By the time the Lord made Woman, He was into his sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, "Why are you spending so much time on this one?"
 
 
And the Lord answered, "Have you seen my spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, and a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart -and she will do everything with only two hands."  The angel was astounded at the requirements. "Only two hands!? No way! And that’s just on the standard model? That’s too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish."

"But I won’t," the Lord protested. "I am close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick
AND can work 18 hour days."

The angel moved closer and touched the woman. "But you have made her so soft, Lord." "She is soft," the Lord agreed, "but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."

"Will she be able to think?", asked the angel. The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate."

The angel, noticing something, reached out, touched the woman’s cheek.
"Oops
, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one."

"That’s not a leak," the Lord corrected, "That’s a tear!"    "What’s the tear for?" the angel asked.

The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride"
The angel was impressed.
"You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything!
Woman is truly amazing."

And she is! Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice. They don’t take "no" for an answer if there’s a better solution They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel; cheer when friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left.

They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart. omen come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They’ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail to show how much they care. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning. They bring joy, hope and love. They have compassion and ideals.
They give moral support to their family and friends.
Women have vital things to say and everything to give.

 
 
THERE IS ONLY ONE FLAW IN WOMEN:  THEY ARE NOT AWARE OF THEIR WORTH.

Mr. Art Bell insults filipinos!!!

January 12th, 2008 by mybabyronnie

A COMMENT FROM A CONCERN FILIPINO CITIZEN TO MR. BELL!

I find this funny, he is right in some ways where we, as Filipinos don’t actually have an "Identity". I think this is due to the confusion of our mixed races from Hispanic, Chinese, American and Malay origins. I see it in malls, imagine young generations wearing ski caps and ski goggles in a tropical country, baggy low rise pants like that of African Americans living in the Bronx of New York, not to mention endless whitening products being sold at department stores and drug stores.

But his ignorance also blinds him from the other truth. That while we may glorify Anime shows and Japanese Internet gaming, he is not aware that a nameless Filipino may be responsible for some technical aspects of some Japanese software. He is not aware of our contribution to the the society in general .Technological advancements that may have aided post war navigations and landing on the moon. That the antibiot ic Erythromycin was discovered by Dr. Abelardo Aguilar from Iloilo creating the brand "Ilosone".

Thomas Edison may have discovered the electric light bulb and the fluorescent lighting was thought up by Nikola Tesla. But the fluorescent lamp we use today was invented by Agapito Flores (a Cebuano named Benigno Flores of Bantayan Island, according to the Philippine Daily inquirer), a Filipino scientist. Americans helped then-Philippine leader Ramon Magsaysay to develop it for worldwide commerce. That the personal physician of former U.S. Pres. Bill Clinton is Eleanor "Connie" Concepcion Mariano, a Filipina doctor who was the youngest captain in the US Navy. A Filipino writer Jose Rizal could read a nd write at age 2, and grew up to speak more than 20 languages, includind Latin, Greek, German, French and Chinese.

Or that a Filipino genius was responsible for the near hiatus in the PENTAGON and White House nearly infiltrationg their closely guarded secrets with the "ILOVEYOU" bug. Nuisance maybe, but still one heck of a ‘beautiful mind’…not to be underestimated.

The list goes on and on, but who cares right? Certainly not Mr. Art Bell…Boy, I’m not surprised.

Perhaps Art Bell does not know that although we consider ourselves ASIAN because we are strategically located in the Southeast asian region of which our nearest neighbors are Malays, ASIA does not mean only Chinese and Japanese race of people. Th en maybe it is his connotation that "Asia" meant only our economically successful, paler brothers and he considers Malays such as Thais, Malaysians, Indonesians, and ourselves as a " Third World " race. Then it is "his" ignonimity that would make a civilized person of whatever race puke. Imagine literally connecting Chinese, Koreans and Japanese to the Philippine Islands which is archipelagos away from the countries he has mentioned. I also wonder where he got the impression th at we aspire to be Japanese( ???) Hispanics maybe but not the Japanese. But even Hispanics today do not mind sharing their "surnames" to their Asian brothers who they have colonized for 3 centuries.

Another sad reality that although most Filipinos working overseas are domestic helpers and prostitutes, who does he think educates the toddlers of Hong Kong , Singapore , Taiwan and Tokyo ? Parents of these countries rarely have time spent with their children, leaving them to their Filipino nannies. And with regard to prostitution. Filipinos are not the only ones working as one. I HARDLY SEE FILIPINOS STARRING IN PORN MOVIES. THERE MIGHT BE A FEW FILIPINOS WE HAVEN’T SEEN , BUT MOST ARE FROM MR. ART BELL’S RACE.

He also mentioned that we have no concept of culture..no concept of asian ideas or asian philosophy. How can we demonst rate Confucianism or Taoism in a Christian nation? IS HE INFORMED THAT THE PHILIPPINES IS THE ONLY PREDOMINANTLY CHRISTIAN/CATHOLIC NATION IN ASIA ?! YOU HAVE TO USE COMMON SENSE IN A LOT OF THINGS SOMETIMES…

We do not need to create an identity for ourselves. We are who we are. Our identity stems from the anonymity we live in this world. How we contribute silently towards the progress of the world and not just one country. Although the Filipino blood may be tainted with malice, corruption, poverty and prostitution, it is not a perfect race… But so are the others. Maybe Mr. Art Bell needs to think about this.

WE MAY NOT BE PERFECT MR. BELL BUT AT LEAST WE STILL HAVE VALUES. FOR ONE THING WE DON’T PUT OUR AGING PARENTS IN NURSING HOMES BECAUSE "THEY’RE SIMPLY OLD AND WORTHLESS". WE DONT HAVE AS MUCH NUMBERS OF SINGLE MOTHERS WHO GET PREGNANT IN THEIR VERY EARLY TEENS AND EVENTUALLY BECOME PARASITES OF THE GOVERNMENT FOR YEARS AND YEARS. < SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana">

YES…WE CAME TO YOUR COUNTRY TO WORK, TO EARN DECENT MONEY (HALF OF WHICH BY THE WAY GOES TO TAXES BECAUSE THERE’S SO MANY SOCIAL PARASITES FROM YOUR RACE).AND BY THE WAY, MOST EDUCATED PEOPLE THAT I WORK WITH DON’T COME FROM YOUR RACE… THEY’RE ACTUALLY IMMIGRANTS TOO. AND THOSE EDUCATED ONES DO NOT ACT LIKE YOU DO, PERHAPS BECAUSE THEY’VE REALLY BEEN WELL EDUCATED..AFTER ALL THAT’S SAID… WHO IS THE IGNORANT ONCE AGAIN?!

Things U shOuLdn’t do to your bOyfriend daw?!ehe

February 21st, 2007 by mybabyronnie

Things U shouldn’t do to your boyfriend daw?! hehe

1.DON’T BE TOO POSSESSIVE.

Don’t start a fight just because you caught him talking/walking with a girl, or keeping pictures and letters from some girl you don’t even know.

2. DON’T INVESTIGATE.

Always checking where your boyfriend might be, who’s with him or what he’s doing. it will definitely annoy him.

3. DON’T BE A "DOG".

Yapping over a heated argument will not solve the problem. It will only increase tension between the two of you and could end up in serious L.Q.

4. DON’T WALK OUT.

Hey, come back here! Walking out in the middle of a heated discussion will not solve issues. Best to talk things over.

5. DON’T BE LATE.

Coming late to your dates is a bad habit. Be on time. Cherish every minute of your special time together.

6. DON’T STAND HIM UP.

Not coming to your dates or scheduled meetings also isn’t a good idea. Honestly tell him if you will not be able to make it. Just imagine how you would feel if he stood you up.

7. DON’T LIE.

Lying to him about where you’ve been or what you’ve done will cause suspicions and, eventually, start petty to serious arguments.

8. DON’T SNEAK IN TO HIS PERSONAL BELONGINGS WITHOUT PERMISSION.

Curiosity killed the cat. Especially if you haven’t known each other for years yet.

9. DON’T FORGET TO SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HIM.

No matter how busy you are, physical presence is important. Quality time is very essential in a relationship. That’s why long-distance love hardly succeeds. Not seeing him for a month is long enough.

10. DON’T HIDE FROM HIM.

There won’t ever be a decent excuse or reason for this. What do you have in mind for doing so, anyway?

11. DON’T DICTATE HIM.

Unless he asks, don’t tell him what to do. Also, don’t forbid him to go out with his friends. Respect his decisions.

12. DON’T MISS YOUR ANNIVERSARY.

Because it’s your "Historical moment", duh!

13. DON’T ASK HIM TO CHOOSE BETWEEN YOU AND BASKETBALL.

Don’t be too harsh on petty matters. He may like sports or he may be a dedicated hobbyist but the fact remains: You are his girlfriend and there’s no need to be jealous of his extra-curricular activities.

14. DON’T COMPARE HIM TO YOUR EX-BOYFRIEND.

That’s not fair! whoever kisses better, just keep it to yourself.

15. DON’T KISS AND TELL.

Don’t ever squeal "bed scenes". Your intimate moments should only be shared and kept exclusively by the two of you.

16. DON’T WORRY OR OVERREACT WHEN HE’S DRIVING.

Remember, he isn’t going to compromise your safety on the road. Sit back and enjoy the ride. (unless he’s drunk).

17. DON’T EMBARRASS HIM IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE.

It’s the male ego thing. Never, never say, "He farts too loud, don’t you, honey?"

18. DON’T BREAK YOUR PROMISE.

Self explanatory.

19. DON’T KEEP SECRETS FROM YOUR BOYFRIEND.

Your secrets will be safe with him. Remember, guys are more trustworthy than girls. Unless, of course, your boyf’s your biggest secret.

20. DON’T ASK HIM TO BUY TOO MANY THINGS FOR YOU.

This is what we call "bilmoko syndrome". Wait for him to ask you what you want.

21. DON’T DATE YOUR EX.

Don’t dare see your ex without your boyfriend’s consent. Even if it was just a simple dinner together, don’t dare mess with his trust.

baby ur my destiny!

February 8th, 2007 by mybabyronnie

What if I never knew What if I never found you I’d never had this feeling In my heart How did this come to be I don’t know how you found me But from the moment I saw you Deep inside my heart I knew Baby, you’re my destiny You and I were meant to be With all my heart and soul I give my love to have and hold And as far as I can see You were always meant to be My destiny I wanted someone like you Someone that I could hold onto And give my love Until the end of time But forever was just a word Something I’d only heard about But now you’re always there for me When you say forever I’ll believe Baby, you’re my destiny You and I were meant to be With all my heart and soul I give my love to have and hold And as far as I can see You were always meant to be My destiny Maybe all we need Is just a little faith. Cause baby, i believe That love will find a way. hey.. Oh baby, you’re my destiny You and I were meant to be I give my love to have and hold And as far as I can see You were always meant to be My destiny

promise by ciara-dedicated to my hubby ronnie

February 6th, 2007 by mybabyronnie

Promise

Come enjoy the life
Baby take ya time
I just wanna find you (you) you (you)
Baby you and i can have a good time
Tell me wat you like ooh ooh

[Talking]
Now listen. I’ve been single for awhile now.
And I been kinda lonely
I’ve been looking for somebody to talk to, love me, someone who can hold me
Is that you?

[Verse 1]
I’m looking for somebody i can call boo,
Looking for the only one who i can give my all to
Tell me if it’s you you you
What you wanna do do do…
Make ya mooveeee

You can be my teacher i’ll do homework
You can give me extra credit baby i’ll do more work
What you wanna do do do…now It’s me and you you you
Move…

[bridge]
Move so rite , how it feels so rite
You can be my prince my knight
You can be my superman save me here i am

[Chorus]
Cuz baby, theres nothing i wont do, to spend my life with you
I’ll give my all to you, i promise, that I will never lie to you boy
theres nothing i wont do to spend my life with you
I’ll give my heart to you, i promise, that i will never lie to you boy

[Verse 2]
You and me together, picture perfect
I’ll spend all my money all the time becuz your worth it
It’s just me and you you you
What you wanna do do do
Make a movee

Call me momma, spoil you like a baby
Thinking bout you, dreaming bout you got me going crazy
What you wanna do do do
Now it’s me and you you you
Move it

[Bridge]
Move so rite, how it feels so rite
You can be my prince, my knight
You can be my superman, save me here i am

[Chorus]
Cuz baby, theres nothing i wont do, to spend my life with you
I’ll give my all to you, i promise, that I will never lie to you boy
theres nothing i wont do to spend my life with you
I’ll give my heart to you, i promise, that i will never lie to you boy

Ohhhh

[Talking]
I mean everything that i say
From the bottom of my heart
I will never, never, ever, hurt you
I’ll open my heart

[Singing]
I’ll open my heart and give it to you
Tell the whole world that I’m in love with you
Whatever you want, baby I’ll do
I know I dont want nobody else but youuuuu

[Chorus]
Cuz baby, theres nothing i wont do, to spend my life with you
I’ll give my all to you, i promise, that I will never lie to you boy
theres nothing i wont do to spend my life with you
I’ll give my heart to you, i promise, that i will never lie to you boy

[fading out]
Baby boy you got me, i been waiting waiting waiting
For you
You can be my homie, i’ll be waiting waiting waiting
For you
Baby come and hold me, I’ll be waiting waiting waiting
For you

i love you babe!